lundi 5 mars 2012

Simple is beautiful


In the last days I've been struggling with some decisions I have to make.
Funny how we complicate life when we simply have it all.
We are animals used to complain.
We will find ways to justify our supposed misery and get that look from someone going like,ah yeah,you really have a problem.
Instead, we should just stop that.
Recently I've been complaining about my house, my car, my job,etc.
Look,the bottom line is: I have a car, a house and a job, just for starters.
They may not be the ones I dreamed all my life, but they are good ones. Believe me.
Despite all that, I found myself recently in a loop of complaints and frustration to a level where I was feeling stuck in life with those things I just didn't want.
Well,short answer is,change it.
Question what you really want, what the hell is really important and what would be making you look at the mirror in the morning and have the energy to go out with a smile. After brushing your teeth,sure.
The funniest art of life is that you have to understand that until you learn some things, they will keep coming again and again.
A while ago, I had an option in life and I made a decision not to take it, after a loooooong thinking process.Much longer than what it should be.
Then, I had some regrets.
Oh I should have taken that, I should have done this,that,whatever.
Man, regrets are shit. The worst crap you can have around your brains.
Get rid of all regrets,now.Believe me they are no good.
And then, now, same decision again. But then, I should be ready to take it,no?
Not really.
So what the hell does that mean?
It means that we are ready to look at things and say I should have done this and that as far as we are far from that situation.
When you put those old shoes on back again, maybe your decision wouldn't be different.
So,my point is, why we have regrets on good decisions we made?
Because we are human beings,eternally expecting more and criticizing our own good moves when something feels not that right.
I really don't know what I will decide to do. But I learned one thing. I am human and I should just accept that and making it simple instead.

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