mardi 30 octobre 2007

Long Island Ice Tea


Having this long island iced tea here in this cute restaurant in Ottawa,I couldn't help but thinking about islands.We have Manhattan,Montreal,Santos.Born in an island,raised in an island and living in an island could have turned me into an island of my own.Wonder why lots of Montrealers or Manhattanians feel like never crossing the bridges.The bridges are there to be the link but it is up to us to find our way to cross them.How to cross a bridge that is not supposed to be there?It looks like those visions and then you step on it and fall for they are not real.Bridges are made of committments.They link our isolated fears and thoughts to challenges that will push us to move on with our lives.What if a committment was done and you simply chosed the other way?What if I took the tunnel while the bridge was just standing there?

Toujours?


J'ai vraiment la misere a comprendre que est-ce qu'on cherche dans la vie.
Mais,je pense aussi que la stabilité est le bout de toutes les relations.
Une fois, mon ex m'a dit qu'on avait eu pas d'amour entre nous encore,mais que la stabilité etait la plus fort raison qui avait nous attiré et maintenu ensemble.
La,je me pose la question,que est-ce que je cherche?
Alors, c'est bien claire quoi je cherche l'amour mais aussi la stabilité.
La question est: pourquoi on a tellement peur de manquer la stabilité dans notre vie?
La mauvaise nouvelle est que il y a rien de stable dans la vie,rien.
Pis,on doit chercher les vrais raisons pour avoir quelq'un dans sa vie.
Il faut faire confiance a la vie, a toi meme et a ton coeur.
Une relation peut pas exister a raison du peur d'etre seul.
Une relation doit exister pour realiser tes reves.
La stabilité restera alors dans ton coeur.
En attendant la stabilité, je regarde l'horizon...

samedi 27 octobre 2007

La vie est compliquée?Ben non!

Je voulais dire...


The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints.
We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less.
We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time.
We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.
We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.
We've learned how to make a living, but not a life.
We've added years to life not life to years.
We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor.
We conquered outer space but not inner space.
We've done larger things, but not better things.
We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.
We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice.
We write more, but learn less.
We plan more, but accomplish less.
We've learned to rush, but not to wait.
We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships.
These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes.
These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet to kill. You can even chose the red pill or the blue pill...
It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom.
We should spend some time with our loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.
We should say a kind word to someone who looks up to us in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave our side
We should give a warm hug to the one next to us, because that is the only treasure we can give with our heart and it doesn't cost a cent.
We should say, "I love you" to our partner and our loved ones, but most of all mean it.
A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of us.
We should hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.
Give time to love, give time to speak!
And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind,the way I do, in this blog, because the only legacy in life is who you were and the difference your thoughts would make to this world.

I will dedicate this posting to my beloved Québec, the place I've learned to love simple things and the place where I faced my fears and found the bravest myself.
Merci mon Québec pour me montrer que la vie peut etre tellement belle.

dimanche 21 octobre 2007

Encore,chui vivant

Last week I had a hard time understanding some things life was offering me.
Then I reacted playing the hard and spoiled boy role...run away,slam the door and just be in my nook.
Then,a message, a couple of words, precisely a single word I wasn't used to read or hear changed everything: 'sorry'.
Reading that I recalled my mother.She used to say that we would always know when someone would be really sorry or not,so it would be easy to know when that would be for real.
I took my chances.
I had a wonderful time.A time to rest, to discover the new, to make myself ready for my life.
I liked the person I was these days. Simple and happy.
J'ai beaucoup a aprendre dans ma vie,mais avec les anges qui viennent dans ma vie, les defis qui sont la deviennent encore plus faciles a vivre.
Une simple mot pour mon fin de semaine: MERCI

mercredi 17 octobre 2007

More of the same

Life has been quite like a revolving door or like a merry-go-round with no happy dad waiting for you while you turn.
Why kids are so fascinated by merry-go-rounds?
You see things again and again,same things.
If you look to the wood horse you are riding you see a steady world and you feel like a warrior, but when you look ahead you keep seeing the same, that is, the real world.
Then the merry-go-round stops and you won't believe you have to buy another token to go back there and see things all over again.
Life can give you that repetitive desilusion for free.
Maybe it is time to try the pinball machine and recognize I am too old for merry-go-rounds...

lundi 15 octobre 2007

Mirror,mirror

Today, I understand the moulds and beliefs that were part of my growth to adulthood. I recognize how they influenced my adult decision-making processes and my relationships. Much of my acquired knowledge was wrong, which resulted in poor choices and unhappiness in my life. I have taken the time to examine these moulds and beliefs that were passed down to me. In all honesty, as a result of this examination, I have discarded about 95% of this inherited knowledge over the past several years. There is an old expression, "Out with the old; in with the new." I have reshaped my own moulds and beliefs to better serve me. They allow me to make better choices for myself that are not based on the influences of others. Today, I express my true individuality-who I really am, and not whom others felt I should be. How wonderful it is to stand in front of a mirror and recognize your true reflection, instead of someone else's reflection.
Droping the mirror and grabing that beer, I looked at you,and saw that even hockey games can show true love is there....:o)

Star light,start bright...first star I see tonight...

I remember that night in Old Montreal when sitting by that bench we looked at the sky and there was only one star up there...
What is the use of a sky full of stars if we have each other?
One star was enough to make that night unforgettable.

mercredi 10 octobre 2007

And then,under that rock I've found it.....

Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.
The funny thing is that love is like a butterfly, the more you pursue it the more it eludes you, but if you are calm and still it will land on you shoulder.
So don't run screaming and running,because it is just a butterfly and it is there to stay.